Yes, it is safe and legitimate. I’m a gay man and have never had sex with a woman and don’t plan to, but for the past few months I’ve been kind of curious what that would be like. Then my friend showed me this sex doll, and I thought, why not? I was a little shocked when it arrived, but it’s heavy! It’s textured …… Wow! The texture …… Wow …… This thing is so well made and the quality of the product exceeded my expectations. Great sex toy at this price point!